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Kevin Powers
04-02-2008, 10:25 AM
A while back I offered support to Raven and shared that my Dad was also suffering from pancreatic cancer:

I know where you're at and will keep you in my prayers.

My Dad was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer last summer. He had a Whipple procedure to remove the pancreas, but the lymph nodes were already effected. He had a terrible time with chemo and completed radiation treatment earlier this year. He just had a PET scan and we should be getting the results this week or next. Depending on the response to the chemo/radiation his outlook will be somewhere between six months and two years. In the meantime he has been having terrible pain in his back. Turns out several vertebrae have suffered compression fractures. He had a khyphoplasty procedure to inject cement into the vertabrae to stabilize them but it didn't help much. Last week they found three more broken vertebrae. He's quite literally falling apart.

My Dad is in NY. My siblings and I are in DC, NM, AZ and MN. His SO has been a saint, but there is a limit to what she can do, so we're trying to negotiate care options and support long distance. We've all been getting back to NY as often as we can. Heavy sigh.

On the upside, we've been able to arrange a family get together for Memorial Day weekend. My Dad was raised in the Bronx and is a lifelong Yankee fan. All of us kids were raised Yankee fans and we have instilled that into the next generation. We've lined up a suite at Yankee Stadium on May 25th and we'll have all of the siblings and grandkids there. So if you're in a praying mood, pray that the game that day doesn't get rained out and that my Dad is strong enough to attend.

Kevin


Sad to report that my Dad passed on March 26. He asked me to be there on the 17th when he got the PET scan results. The results weren't good. later that week, the oncologist told us that they had just figured out that my Dad also had multiple myeloma, which turns out to have been the cause of the compression fractures of his spine.

I was fortunate to have that last week with him. When he was awake he was sharp as a tack, and we had some great talks. It was good time together.

Rest in peace John V Powers.

Mellow
04-02-2008, 10:28 AM
Very sorry Kevin... 2 months ago today I lost my dad. I'm glad you had some time with him, that's some very valuable time and I'm sure he was glad to have you at his side.

I wish you and your family the best during this time.

DaBear
04-02-2008, 10:45 AM
My deepest sympathies. I lost my father in 1962 when I was six. I'll bet that it's just as bad at sixty-one.

Mark
04-02-2008, 10:48 AM
My condolences and prayers for you and yours.

Mark

John Anthony
04-02-2008, 11:19 AM
Kevin,

I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Losing any family member is always difficult. I'm glad you were able to spend some time with him and sure you were able to bring your father comfort.

Take care.

John

STPaulK
04-02-2008, 12:18 PM
Sorry for your loss Kevin. Here's to John V. Powers and celebration of a good life!

dmulk
04-02-2008, 12:55 PM
Sorry for your loss, Kevin.

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hawkeyeST
04-02-2008, 01:01 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that Kevin. I'm sure your Dad was a heck of a guy.

Raven
04-02-2008, 02:06 PM
Sorry to hear this Kevin. You're definitely in our thoughts and prayers. Sure glad you had some good time with him.

johnSTamela
04-03-2008, 03:09 AM
My sincere condolences in the passing of your father.

AZST
04-03-2008, 08:22 AM
Tough news.

Condolences and warm thoughts to you and yours.

--Bryan
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STill Fiddlin
04-03-2008, 09:27 AM
Sorry for your loss. Be glad you had a chance to spend some good time together before the end.

Sink
04-03-2008, 10:57 AM
Kevin,
So sorry to hear about your Dad. Keep the memories alive within and he will always be with you.

Don-STOC237
04-03-2008, 11:30 AM
Sorry to hear that, Kevin.

Our sympathies...