The green Honda connection in the posts above has the female side of the flat blade type. If you are wiring directly to that, I used the 9 pin connector and added the flat "male" connector to the switches/power/ground connections I needed. Only one connector from that kit should fit that plug housing, only one option for the blade connector too if I remember correctly.
For the auxiliary wiress that run to the front, behind the mirrors - I actually cut the stock round bullet connections off at the tail section and wired in a 4 connector plug from the kit. I am not sure if the round style from this kit is a direct fit to Honda's. I already had the front connections complete to the lighting prior to buying this kit.
Hope that helps!
Ryan