Problem is I'm getting ZERO sag and could probably cut a little off the length of the spacers and still get ZERO sag. Should have known the spacers were way too long when I was struggling so much to get the caps back on the tops. What I did was incorrectly assume that the new springs with spacers and washers should equal the length of the old springs. Just doesn't seem to be the case with my bike. I thought that was what I was supposed to do, but perhaps I incorrectly read that when it was advice for the 1300 forks.maybe I haven't thought this through, but as long as you get some compression in the forks with the current spacers, the difference between the sag you have now and 30mm sag, is the amount you want to shorten the spacers. I think whatever preload you apply through the spacer length, translates into that much less upper slider travel to reach equilibrium. If you add 10mm to the spacer length, the upper slider now has to move 10mm less to support the weight of the bike by compressing the spring, and your ride height goes up by 10mm.
edit: this assumes you change the spacer length in each fork by the same amount, and don't just change one of them, but I think that's fairly obvious.
But I get your point about the equilibrium....just I haven't found the correct length of the spacers yet that would get me to that point.
Looks like I've just got to tinker with it a bit. During my second attempt, I'm going to try to follow the instructions that came with the Sonic springs. The instructions do mention that the new spring/spacer comber might be shorter than stock because the stock setup have a lot of preload to keep sag within reason with the softer stock springs.
Although this process is a bit time consuming and frustrating, I now know about 2,000% more about suspension setup than I did a week ago.