Prayers for Frances McDonald

Reginald · Dec 22, 2017

Mom, has suffered a fifth stroke. She's 88. She's lost all cognitive ability and is slowly withering away, she's cold and clammy and the blood pressure is dropping. It looks like she is suffering to me; naw I know she is. With each stroke she lost capability. For 5 years now she's been unable to talk except for yes and a I-don't-know shrug. I pray for a quick painless end.

Went through this suffering bit with my dad in 2011 who got Chronic inflammatory demyelinating polyneuropathy (CIDP) which is related to ALS. Then I stopped riding for about 2 years. Now, again, I can't find it within me to throw a leg over the ST. Not sure I'll see anyone this year, but I will be thinking about you.

flip-flop · Dec 22, 2017

I am sorry. Prayers sent

dduelin · Dec 22, 2017

Reginald, I pray for the best outcome possible for your mom and also for you. There is healing on this side of the grave and healing on the other side of the grave and it's OK to ask for what side is best and let it go. God does the rest.

BakerBoy · Dec 22, 2017

Sorry to hear of this Reginald. Prayers lifted to God that you, family, and her are strengthened in this difficult time. :pray1:

Whooshka · Dec 22, 2017

Been thru something similar. So painful to watch. She might not be able to understand you but tell her you love her and whisper in her ear that she was a great mom and it's OK to let go. Pray for the good lord to gently take her into his arms and give her peace.

Peppermint · Dec 22, 2017

I'm sorry to read this, Reginald. I went through similar situations with both my parents. May you find strength and courage and may your mom's passage be peaceful.
You will be in my thoughts.

Patty

ToddC · Dec 22, 2017

Thoughts are with you. Relief will come soon, we all hope, for you and yours.

John OoSTerhuis · Dec 22, 2017

May it comfort you to know that your ST family joins in your sadness. Like many others here, I understand your pain... my parents, wife and just last month my dear sister.

I pray for a gentle and kind passing.

Sincerely, John

AJMeister · Dec 22, 2017

That's very sad especially this time of the year. My thoughts are with you.

Onicabbit · Dec 22, 2017

Prayers sent!

MaxPete · Dec 22, 2017

So sorry to read this Reginald. I hope your Mom's journey continues in a peaceful way that give all around her some peace as well.

Pete

okckeith · Dec 22, 2017

Thoughts and prayers for the McDonald family.

John Anthony · Dec 23, 2017

So sorry to hear this news, Reginald, especially around the holidays. Sending prayers for peace, strength and serenity.

John

Hueyf4i · Dec 23, 2017

You are in our thoughts and prayers. I understand, my father passed away December 1, at the age of 63. Throat cancer, 3 heart attacks, blood pressure, diabetes, and many other issues that accelerated his passing. Take every day as a blessing.

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Reginald · Dec 25, 2017

Update, Mom passed 12/24/2017 about 1:00 p.m. I missed being there by about 15 minutes. The nursing home hadn't had time to let me know and the staff was afraid to talk to me when I told them I thought she had gone to her maker. After I assured them I had no fuss, they became sympathetic and explained the time line. I was so grateful her suffering ended that all my stress left me; though, I now have a profound sadness, but I'm relaxed now. Here's to Frances Jackson McDonald, a great mom, world traveler (lived in 5 countries), and world class party giver; love you!

Whooshka said:
She might not be able to understand you but tell her you love her and whisper in her ear that she was a great mom and it's OK to let go.

I did this very thing Saturday. I could tell she was stressed by the expression on her face and ragged breathing. You know, her faced eased and she started breathing easier after I told her my goodbyes and that I'd take care of her and return her to her family. I had a feeling this was my last chance to talk to her.

Thanks so much for your prayers and best wishes. I know I'm not the only one who's gone through this and my prayers are with you too.

Truly have a merry Christmas (I will I'm having kids and fiances over for Christmas Dinner) and may your health never flag.

sirepair · Dec 25, 2017

More thoughts, prayers and warm-fuzzies your way. Sorry to hear this but understand completely that she is at rest. Good that you were able to say your goodbyes.

My father passed on Christmas Eve, 2014.

sabrekip · Dec 25, 2017

I did this very thing Saturday. I could tell she was stressed by the expression on her face and ragged breathing. You know, her faced eased and she started breathing easier after I told her my goodbyes and that I'd take care of her and return her to her family. I had a feeling this was my last chance to talk to her.

You are a Very good son. Godspeed

ToddC · Dec 25, 2017

I hope the closeness of family and the warmth of the holiday season helps with your loss.......she is in a better place.

ToddC

wjbertrand · Dec 25, 2017

Reginald said:
Update, Mom passed 12/24/2017 about 1:00 p.m. I missed being there by about 15 minutes. The nursing home hadn't had time to let me know and the staff was afraid to talk to me when I told them I thought she had gone to her maker. After I assured them I had no fuss, they became sympathetic and explained the time line. I was so grateful her suffering ended that all my stress left me; though, I now have a profound sadness, but I'm relaxed now. Here's to Frances Jackson McDonald, a great mom, world traveler (lived in 5 countries), and world class party giver; love you!

I did this very thing Saturday. I could tell she was stressed by the expression on her face and ragged breathing. You know, her faced eased and she started breathing easier after I told her my goodbyes and that I'd take care of her and return her to her family. I had a feeling this was my last chance to talk to her.

Thanks so much for your prayers and best wishes. I know I'm not the only one who's gone through this and my prayers are with you too.

Truly have a merry Christmas (I will I'm having kids and fiances over for Christmas Dinner) and may your health never flag.

Condolences, I lost my mom in July (Still have not completely processed it) and can completely understand the stress/sadness exchange. Prayers and good wishes to you and yours.

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gmast1100 · Dec 25, 2017

Sorry for your loss Reg. I know the feeling. I missed my Dad’s passing by an hour 5 1/2 years ago. Didn’t get to say my good-byes to my Mom either. It’s stressful for sure.

May your Mom RIP

Prayers for Frances McDonald

Reginald

cyclepoke

flip-flop

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dduelin

Tune my heart to sing Thy grace

BakerBoy

It's all small stuff.

Whooshka

Fairly faST old guy

Peppermint

ToddC

John OoSTerhuis

Life Is Good!

AJMeister

Onicabbit

Tailess Cabbit!

MaxPete

okckeith

John Anthony

Hueyf4i

Reginald

cyclepoke

sirepair

Let's RIDE!

sabrekip

ToddC

wjbertrand

Ventura Highway

gmast1100

Gettin old sux