You'll be very happy with the outcome Mike. I'm 190 lbs, and an aggressive rider too. When I called Race Tech, they were very helpful and optimized the springs front and rear for my weight and riding style. I'm lucky enough to live within a few hours of their Corona office.
I called and told them I wanted everything also. I received a phone call a couple of weeks later, letting me know my shock had been built. I trailered the bike down to Corona, wheeled the bike into the shop, and the staff gave my friends and me a quick tour of the facility. Race Tech even let me leave my trailer in their rear parking lot while the bike was there. When it was completely assembled, I drove the truck back down there and hooked the trailer back up. Even though the technician assured me he'd set the sag for my weight, Michelle made him check it again with me aboard, knowing I was going to trailer the bike 3 hours back home.
You'll really like the difference in the handling of your ST, and the RT staff is top notch--attentive to any questions or concerns.