Well, that's that done, pics at:
http://myweb.tiscali.co.uk/sandybuchan
There were quite a lot of black particulates in the coolant, noticeable as soon as I dropped the stat, then when I drained out the rad, and also in the bottom of the plastic expansion tank. The bits that were big enough to examine looked like tiny bits of rubber.
But I have a theory..... yes, another thermostat failure theory... Have a look at the picture of my old stat (pic labelled 2138)versus a new one, the old one looks like it is scaled up. Could it be the dealer is saving a few pennies on first coolant fill of the bike by using tapwater? I haven't changed or even topped-up the coolant in the last 15,000 miles (i.e. from new). My stat was stuck solid, and I changed it out after a very few miles of it failing. I can't imagine a speck of rubber/paint/whatever welding the thing so hard. Boiling/cold water cycling didn't budge it, neither did my fingers. I don't want to try anything mechanical cos Honda wants it sent to them so they can analyse the fault. I'll send them the pics I took on removal as well.
The rad and system was flushed through with water during the stat replacement but I reckon I had about 200ml which I didn't get to which leaves me with 9% tapwater, I may drain and refill again to take the total remaining tapwater to less than 1%. Just my theory but the pictures look convincing to me....