Your gas cap worked fine when new, so why would you think filing metal would fix it now?
If you remove the assembly, lift the gasket, you will see a silver washer, under this, you will see 3 small screws, remove these and the lock assembly will lift out, be sure to hold all the sliding brass parts together.
Lightly grease the female lock assembly housing (not the tumblers) then reassemble everything, and you'll find your key snaps back into position again and pops open like it did when it was new.
This has nothing to do with lubing the tumblers or key itself, but rather the housing that the assembly sits in, this allows free movement of all the parts. I suspect those folks who just spray lubricant inside the tumblers, often put enough in there to seep through the tumblers and some gets on the housing. dry graphite or key lubricant is ok on the tumblers, but the female housing assembly comes from honda with light grease in there.
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