You are probably not going to like my opinion but I would strongly recommend the hugely expensive oem assembly. To me they just seem to last the longest, and also
everything else in there (filter, strainer sock and fuel level thermistor) gets renewed at the same time. The huge expense is what justifies testing before replacing. Suspicions need to be confirmed by testing and diagnosis before just throwing one in I can't stress that enough

To me, if I had a break down far from home due to a cheap part that failed, the resulting expense and hassle would far outweigh the few hundred bucks I saved IMHO. Yes I have seen on here where some have confirmed that Honda car pumps fit and work. That being said I suppose it's an easy enough repair and one could likely fit an aftermarket pump from autoparts store in a parking lot far from home in a pinch...
Test first, and if it turns out you do need a pump, then if you can fit the part yourself you are already way ahead of the game in labour savings helping offset the parts cost....