Careful there, please check to see what fuses control the quartet harness' various plugs. I have not checked, because I am using them for very low powered applications so I did not look for the specifics. I've read here that the various connectors are powered by 3 and 5 amp fuses - going by memory so I might be wrong. As
@jfheath said, the connectors might not support the load of your lights but they will support a switching relay - one that uses power for the lights from another source (you have shown that as a fused circuit from the battery). Just because a fuse is of sufficient size to power your lights, does not mean that is an all clear sign. You need to see what other loads (lights, etc.) are protected by that fuse. Honda's engineers designed their wiring system to carry juice to the various accessories very carefully. If you look closely, many wires are very small - designed for the small loads they serve. Tapping into them can lead to problems. Those engineers did not design this bike for us to play with the wiring system on a lark - they served their needs, not ours or future owners'. I admit to being surprised at what some guys get away with - and that is testimony to the engineering safety factors built into many items, not their own knowledge of what they are doing.