I echo what
@SMSW has said - particularly lowering the rear pre-load a bit. A little bit makes a big difference.
Plus what
@Sidekick mentioned about tyres. The recommended BT020 F rated is a good baseline. The Bridgestone T30-32 GT rated, have a nicer profile but feel a little odd after the BT020 for the first few miles. The T33 looks really promising with its greately extended tyre life, but I have yet to fit them. The BT021 and 023 GT rated were never much good for me - really odd tyre wear which altered their their shape dramatically. But I think that you would notice tyres in the twisties no matter what the wind conditions.
But also - if you have rear 'top box' and you ride solo, that will buffet you around. Have you ever seen the eddy behind a rock in a fast flowing stream ? The water swirls in behind the rock from one side and then from the other, every couple of seconds. Maybe faster.
You are the rock and the wind is the water. It does exactly the same thing. If you ride solo and have a top box, the wind behind you will hit the top box first from one side and then from the other. The official Honda top box is designed to yield to this - it moves sideways on its mounts if it is fitted properly.
But there is nothing like fitting a pillion. That fills the gap, and the eddying doesn't happen at all until the wind reaches the space behind the top box. Also, removing the top box and don't ride so that you are looking through the windshield (I know some people who do - but it seems odd to me).
I was trying to find a video of this and discovered that the behaviour is known as a Vortex Street. This video shows one slowly forming. Start it from about 50 seconds in. That is the sort of thing that happens behind your back, and if you have a top box fitted, it hits the top box. If you have a pillion on the back and a top box, it will happen behind the bike so doesn't really affect you.
Link to Video starting at 0:51. Your and the fairing are the white circle. The bit just behind that is what is hitting your top box. You may have to sit through adverts. I can't do anything about that.
Also - check that your front wheel has been tightened in the correct sequence. ie Undo the axle bolts and re-tighten the axle. If you don't have a giant hex driver to hold the axle while you tighten the axle bolt, then make sure that the axles end is flush with the hole on the left hand side and tightent the left (clutch side) axle pinch bolts temporarily - just while you tighten the axle bolt. Then undo the left pinch bolts and torque up the right (brake lever) side pinch bolts. Bounce the bike on its forks a few times, check that the axle is flush on the left side. and tighten the pinch bolts. You should also check the clearance between the disk at the point where it passes throught the caliper.
The above procedure is important, because if you don't do it this way it is entirely possible for you wheel to slide left and right on the axle. Probably not by much, but even a little but will make the bike feel very unstable. Tightening the axle bolt pulls the entire wheel assembly across to the right hand fork leg.
Watch my animation here
Again you would notice this in the twisties, and you would probably notice that the first pull of the brake lever was everso slightly softer than subsequent pulls (because the movement of the wheel on its axle will nudge the brake pads further in to the caliper). But you will know whether or not you followed the correct procedure. But it is a 5 minute check - which you should do anyway if someone else fitted the wheel last.
You could check your bearings when the wheel is next out. Even a tiny bit of play makes a massive difference.
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Don't ride in the eddy of large vehilcles. If you want to go past them, beware , especially in headwinds or when the wind is blowing from the left (UK) or right (USA), there will be a massic bow wave to punch through just as you are passing the cab. Move out of the slipstream, take a wide line and just before you reach the drivers door, countersteer slightly so that your bike has a slight lean towards the cab. The aim is to be roughly just over the centre of your lane by the time you are clear of the cab. You will still get the gust, but now it wont take you by surprise or knock you off balance. It will just stand you upright for a moment.
The final thing is the impossible task. Don't tense up. Yes, I know - it is the first thing that you do when hit by a cross wind, but it does't help at all and it is impossible to achieve and its only idiots like me writing this sentence that will say it. When you are nervous about cross winds anyway, tensing up is what you do. So saying not to do it is really not very helpful.
But it is more something to aim for rather than something you can do immediately. As you ride more and more in windy weather the problem and the tension seems to go away. So it is more a case of being aware of it and getting your brain to deal with it in a different way. I've not ridden this Summer due to tearing a calf muscle putting the bike on its centre stand. I know very well that I am going to have to re-learn and that I will be grabbing the bars with a tight grip and my forearm muscle will pump up like Popeye's. My brain has learned how to limp. The leg doesn't hurt any more, but I still limp. I'm having to re-learn how to walk.
Be aware that you are doing it when it is windy and force yourself to hold the bars rather than grab them.
Here in the Yorkshire Dales, we have roads lined with dry stone walls. they are all over the place dividing the countryside into fields. A legacy from the early 1500s and King Henry VIII. In cross winds you get a bit of shelter from the walls - and then when you pass a gateway you get a sudden blast from the side. So as well as the potholes, the stray sheep, the cow, horse and sheep dropping, gravel from the farm tracks washed down across the road surface - I have to keep an eye open for the gates in the wall - 'cos the wind blows straight through them.
The ST1100 was much worse for cross wind - or pehaps I got better at dealing with it. The ST1300 was very twitchy in comparison when I first made the switch, and it was desperately bad if I forgot to take off the preload that I had added for 2-up touring with camping gear. Knocking the pre-load down a bit helped to get used to it. But It doesn't bother me at all now.
Except open moorland in very strong winds.