It's off. I broke a 6pt SK socket, a closed end 14mm ratchet wrench and a box wrench. And that was after much penetrating fluid and torching it.
I finally rode to the tire place, where they used an air impact wrench. That didn't work either and rounded the bolt off a little more. Finally, with a manual impact wrench and a sledge hammer, it came off.
I want to thank Russellville, Arkansas Honda for over tightening the stopper bolt. The axle bolt was also much less than 80 lbs/ft. Maybe they reversed the torque values between the two, or more likely, just tightend up everything using the goodentight method. Considering that the rear fender and exhaust bolts were also overtight, I think that's what they did.
In any case, the new tire is on. Thanks again for the suggestions.
PS - My local dealer does not have any caliper stopper bolts in stock. Considering that they are supposed to replace it, how do they change tires?