Howard,
Maybe its you? Not being rude, just that with only 3,000 miles on the bike I think it kinda unlikely somethings gone wrong without a crash, even with our really bad roads (I commute rt.1 5x week).
Over the 8,500 miles I've done on my '04 the front of my bike has been pretty consistently....... floppy as I like to call it. Some of it maybe tires the 020fs were completely spent and things have definitely been better with the PR2s. Primarily, I think its just the stock setup on this bike being poorly valved, under sprung, and too much static sag (at least with most of us aboard). Mix in a rear that's also under-sprung and over dampened, on our patchwork roads, you can really get that sphincter factor 10 feeling.
In my experience the bike will actually handle far more then it feels like it will, so much so that I wonder if that wasn't designed into the stock suspension.
Personally I'm leaning toward doing a penske rear and race-tech front.