@claytonia Clay, I'm so sorry you are still having hard time solving this.
Yeah, it's not easy sometime...
Man.... You need a bit of help from heaven now.
The problem have to be related to air, fuel or sparks, right ?
I'm just thinking out loud, here...
What could be an easy way to bypass the fuel pump, just to exclude it from possible cause of the problem ?
In the tool section of some online retailers, I've seen a kind of rubber pouch with a hose (same principle than a camping shower ) to act as a temporary gaz tank / fuel pump bypass.
Do you have a date code stamped on your fuel pump ?
My ST1100 is from 2000 and only had 20K miles when I got it two years ago.
Despite the low mileage, the gas pump had been replaced in 2014, before being sold to the 2nd owner, because the bike had been sitting for too long, probably with an empty tank.
Maybe you have some fuel, but the pressure is not right ?