Tried jumpering the female relay connector again with the key / power on.
There's an L and a B position molded into the relay body, which correspond to the 2 pins in the wiring harness, what I call the "female" side of the relay.
Confirmed 12v to the B wire.
I don't remember what Larry said that goes to.
Larry said the L side goes to the turn signal switch. On that side, I can't tell from the relay position, because the numbers on my meter are all over the place.
The gray wire of the three wires at the turn signal switch (other two are orange, and light blue) is beneath a little plate in the switch housing, which i will not investigate now, since it's about to be dark.
My luck would have me drop one on the driveway, losing it forever... no thanks.
I do have power up at the turn signal, where it goes to the bulb (photo above, with test light)... but we already know there is power there, because the amber running lights come on.
They just don't turn on the actual turn signals.
Time to wrap it up for the night, and come back to it later.
Let middle cowl, seats, side cases, and button up the instrument pod before the lights go out.
More later... guaranteed.