Sounds like the dealer either didn't have a clue, didn't care, or wants you to damage more stuff to generate revenue
A few things jump out at me in your pictures.
1. Non-OEM pads (probably EBC)
2. The scrape marks on the edge of the rotor, as if the front of the pads are not seated correctly in the clip, and the rotor is damaging the rear caliper mounting bracket etc.
3. The pistons are in terrible shape with rust and pitting on them, which makes me wonder about the condition of the seals etc.
4. You say the Front's are getting grabby? sounds like your sliding dowels are probably dirty or dry, and its not moving (floating) smoothly as it should.
5. The last picture shows the inboard pad sitting crooked (probably due to some/all of the above noted comments) which means the pistons are not working together, and pistons are sticking etc.
and while its hard to tell from the angle of the photo, it looks like the outboard pad is much more worn than the inboard one, which indicates that the caliper is not moving/working correctly etc.
6. This type of wear, and issues could also be caused by your SMC either dying a slow death, or already damaged and sticking in the bore, and/or clogged up in the return port screen.
When was the last time the brake system was serviced? Who did it? Was it done correctly? And I'm kind of hoping it wasn't done by the shop who told your your pads were acceptable and let you ride your bike out of his shop, without pointing out any/all of these things for your safety.