jfheath
John Heath
Thanks for the kind comments. Although I reckon it fell a long way short of advice. Just observations and related experiences that I had stowed away at various times.
I sometimes prattle on about stuff - like my answer to your post. Sometimes the silence that follows is very clearly due to everyone NOT saying: 'what the hell is he going on about' . But I really don't care about that - because I've been an educator all my life, and my job was to help people to understand. It's difficult to break the habits of a lifetime. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it needs a different input - or somebody else.
I find things like the bicycle analogy can trigger a different thought process. Usually overnight when your brain is filing information away, and it rifles through other related information. You dream quite vividly and from nowhere out pops an answer.
My favourite anecdote about this sort of thing:
I can't do that myself. I'm not as clever as other people. My brother is really clever. He can do anything.
So when I have a problem that I can't solve, I think about what my brother would do.
And then I do that.
I sometimes prattle on about stuff - like my answer to your post. Sometimes the silence that follows is very clearly due to everyone NOT saying: 'what the hell is he going on about' . But I really don't care about that - because I've been an educator all my life, and my job was to help people to understand. It's difficult to break the habits of a lifetime. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it needs a different input - or somebody else.
I find things like the bicycle analogy can trigger a different thought process. Usually overnight when your brain is filing information away, and it rifles through other related information. You dream quite vividly and from nowhere out pops an answer.
My favourite anecdote about this sort of thing:
I can't do that myself. I'm not as clever as other people. My brother is really clever. He can do anything.
So when I have a problem that I can't solve, I think about what my brother would do.
And then I do that.
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