Well. To say that I am taken aback by your post would be an understatement. Your comments suggest that you don't yet have a full understanding of what this forum...and these people...are about. We do not discuss crashes/ensuing injuries "in private" here. They affect all of us, as it can happen to any one of us. We all care deeply for one another and never hesitate to offer support/help/friendship to a fellow rider who has gone down and are thankful that he/she survived to tell the tale.
If you don't ride yourself, or have never gone down in a crash, maybe this is all new to you. If you do ride, or have gone down, I frankly have no explanation for why you would make such insensitive remarks. In any case, I'm sorry you feel that way; if this thread offends or bores you, please, by all means, ignore it.
Patty