This thread has been dormant for a while but I will add my own story. First, 30 years ago my father had prostate cancer when he was about my age. He had complications from the surgery and was in the hospital for a week. It took a while to fully recover but no return of the cancer. He just turned 97 last August!
I had a slightly elevated PSA in the 2-4 range during my annual checkups for a long time but a few years ago I started having problems with an enlarged prostate and started seeing a urologist who prescribed Flomax which helped. I was also getting regular PSA checks since it was a little more elevated than usual. When it reached around 8 last January, I had a biopsy (no fun at all). The results showed cancer localized to one area of the prostate with a Gleason score of 3+4. After much discussion we decided to go with a robotic prostatectomy at the end of May, knowing the possible side effects.
Surgery went well and I had a catheter for two weeks. At the catheter removal they had the oncology reports which indicated that no cancerous cells were detected outside of the removed prostate. I started out wearing heavily padded undergarments due to partial incontinence, normally when getting up, laughing or sneezing, etc. This was my main concern with the effects of the surgery. Doing the Kegel exercises on my own helped a little and I switched to a lighter weight pad. The doctor referred me to a physical therapy clinic. I was skeptical and it was a little awkward with the female PT's, but after about a month of their work plus my own I was able go back to regular undergarments.
The other main side affect had to do with sexual performance and this was not unexpected since they did have to remove the blood vessels on one side. I had a prescription of 5mg Tadalafil (Cialis) which did not do much. I then got another prescription for the 20mg pill to be taken as needed
Better but still not good enough. He then suggested I try adding L-arginine on a daily basis, stating that some patients had success in using this vitamin and eventually dropped the prescription drugs. I am currently taking 2000mg a day, plus the prescription, and happy to report that things are better.
I will probably up it to 3000mg when the current supply is finished.
Nine months since surgery and PSA levels continue to be non-measurable. It will be some time before we can say for certain that the cancer is gone. I have been able to mostly overcome the side effects of the surgery but it helps to have a supportive spouse. Of course the first concern is beating the cancer, but as a guy the other things were more troubling to me than I imagined. I guess I was blocking the possibility from my mind. I had a book given to me at the urologist that I highly recommend, 100 Questions About Prostate Cancer by Pamela Ellsworth, MD.