Uncle Phil :
I understand your concern. After I installed a low pressure auto fuel pump, I measured the flow and it was a heck of a lot higher than the Honda spec. If you do a calculation, you only need about 3 oz. flow per mile , if I recall my calculation properly. I was concerned about the pressure, too.
I removed the OEM filter, fitted a metal canister fuel filter in the tank, connected to the output line of the fuel pump, and drilled 3 small holes at the inlet side of the filter. There just happens to be 3 small dimples on the inlet end of the metal fuel filter - convenient. That reduced the output flow, but it was still above the OEM spec. I'm sure doing that also reduced the pressure.
I also removed the diaphragm fuel cut-off valve and replaced it with a mechanical spring-loaded one-way flow valve.
I never measured the output pressure, but I don't think I have a problem - the bike runs great and gets the same mileage, etc.